No this isn't a post to say to stay away from drugs. Although, you should. Don't use them, they fry your brain, ruin your friendships, and are a terrible influence on society. There, obligatory save on a statement.
I am instead saying no to spousal travel. Carrie and I have only been married for 2 1/2 months, and she had to go to Louisville for her PhD comps and classes. I had lived independent for years before we got married, but in the last week I have realized how utterly helpless I am! I didn't think I'd be as lonely as I am without her, nor did I think I'd be so behind on keeping up with the house.
Praise the Lord this is the last extended trip!